The death of an American soldier in combat is painful. The agony of loss is heart-wrenching. I’ve looked at the faces of the dead, those who were beside me talking only a few moments ago.
I’ve looked in the faces of their friends; for some, friends for years: through basic training, AIT, and a first assignment together. These are friends who were in pain. Their grief was visible. Sometimes is came out in anger, sometimes in laughter, sometimes in tears, sometimes in rigid features that could not express the pain.
I’ve looked in the faces of their family members: wives, parents, siblings, grandparents, uncles and aunts, and others. Sharing memories with them was an a privilege. Hearing their memories was an even greater privilege.
Those men weren’t angels, but they are heroes. Cut down in the prime of life, they gave it all. None of them awakened thinking it would be a good day to die. Instead, they simply performed their duty, a duty that led them into harm’s way. They fulfilled their sworn duty with the full measure of their lives; they gave it all so I might live in peace.
The pain is still there for the families and the buddies. Yes, my own pain is still there, too. In some sense, it is compounded by knowing that those families and friends bear the pain; I suppose this is a pastor’s calling–to grieve and to bear the grief of others.
If you don’t know someone who gave his life for this country, ask me. I’ll tell you about these honorable men. They were my friends.
In grateful memory of those men of my military flock who died fighting our nation’s enemies:
- Elias Elias
- Allen Jaynes
- Michael Balsley
- Alexander Fuller
- Jay Martin
- Alexander Funcheon
- Brian Botello
- Eric Snell
- Mikeal Miller
- Jason Fabrizi
- Tyler Parten
- Michael Scusa
- Christopher Griffin
- Stephan Mace
- Brian Pedro
- Nathan Carse
- Alexander Povilaitis
- Tristan Wade
Comfort their families and their brothers in arms.
2 thoughts on “The pain is still there”
Thanks you for your service to these men & their families. My dad fought in WWII, Korea, & Vietnam (30 years in the USAF). He never talked about it. I always have wondered what pain he carried alone. My son suffers from PTSD & has surviver’s guilt. I am sure you helped these people in their darkest hours.
Thank you. What servicemembers carry from combat is hard to communicate to others. I find it difficult to describe my own feelings as well as the way I know other soldiers feel. It’s my calling and joy to continue to minister to servicemembers and their families, even though I’m not in the military now. The bond is strong and I can understand what many have been through. They are forever in my heart.
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